TWO THINGS THAT HAVE ENTERTAINED AND ENTANGLED

 

Ah, gluttony and winebibbing—two things that have entertained and entangled humans since the dawn of time. If you’ve ever found yourself eyeing that last slice of pie or debating just how many grape juice packets you need for your soirée, welcome to the club. The Scriptures have quite a bit to say about these indulgences, so let’s delve into the divine guidance while keeping our hearts light and our spirits buoyant.

You see, there was this wise guy named Solomon—king, poet, and a guy who really knew how to throw a party. In the Book of Proverbs, he drops some gems about indulgence and excess. He says in Proverbs 23:20-21, "Do not join those who drink too much wine or gorge themselves on meat, for drunkards and gluttons become poor, and drowsiness clothes them in rags." You could say he had a way of putting the kibosh on things that get out of hand, like that time you thought it was a good idea to challenge your friends to a snack-eating contest.

But wait, it’s not all doom and gloom! The holiday season is a magnificent reminder of the blessings of food and fellowship, inviting us to gather, celebrate, and reflect. Amidst the twinkling lights and festive decorations, there’s an opportunity to embrace these gifts thoughtfully. In this season of joy, the gathering of family and friends around tables brimming with delicious dishes becomes a focal point of celebration. Yet, just as Solomon advised, it’s essential to strike a balance. This wisdom can serve as a gentle nudge during those festive gatherings where the aroma of holiday treats fills the air and the temptation to overindulge peaks. A moment of mindfulness amidst the merriment can make all the difference.

Food, fine drink, and merrymaking—they're all blessings from Adonai, right? After all, who doesn't enjoy a hearty meal shared with friends, or the warmth of laughter echoing through the night? Just look at Jesus, who attended a wedding feast and turned water into wine—talk about a divine party planner! It’s a dance of joy, communion, and respect for the blessings of life. The key is moderation. Think of it like this: if food is a gift from God, gluttony is the kid who opens all their presents in one breath and ends up carrying them out on a flatbed truck.

Interestingly, Paul chimes in on this topic in his letter to the Philippians, warning about those whose “god is their stomach.” Imagine that—a literal stomach-god! His call reminds us of the importance of self-control (Philippians 3:19). After all, it’s hard to hear that still, small voice calling you to a deeper relationship with God when all you can hear is the sound of crunching chips. As cherished as the festivities are, they should not eclipse the call to love one another. Treating one another with dignity enhances not only the atmosphere of any gathering but also honors the heart of the season. It’s important to consider those at the table—whether they’re savoring meals with great enthusiasm or simply enjoying the joy of companionship.

Respect for one another during this time fosters a warm environment, one where even the little ones, who may find themselves getting a bit too excited by sweets, are guided with love and understanding. After all, isn’t it much more enjoyable to celebrate together in a spirit of unity and kindness? Paul’s exhortation to the Corinthians about sharing the Lord's Supper serves as a poignant reminder that the essence of the season lies in community. It’s about coming together, nurturing relationships, and ensuring that no one goes hungry—metaphorically or literally.

As laughter and stories are shared, the spirit of respect should flow freely. The old adage about birds of a feather comes to mind: surround yourself with uplifting company. The voices of those who inspire can make even the most delectable dishes taste sweeter, and the memories forged more enduring. This is true not only during joyous moments but also when stressors arise—a natural part of holiday gatherings. Approaching each individual with grace and love can transform any potentially uneasy situation into an opportunity for understanding.

So as we journey through life, we can embrace the opportunities for joy, fellowship, and feasting with hearts that seek to glorify God. Share those meals, laugh with abandon, and don’t hesitate to indulge every now and then—in moderation, of course! In this delightful dance between joy and moderation, let’s not forget about the company we keep. Proverbs 28:7 tells us, “A discerning son heeds instruction, but a companion of gluttons disgraces his father.” Well, no pressure or anything! It’s a reminder that our choices—food and friends—reflect who we are. It’s much more enjoyable to celebrate in a spirit where laughter can abound, stories can flow, and the spirit of unity reigns supreme. The proof of our person is in the actions of our hearts (Matthew 12:34).

This holiday season serves as a beautiful reminder that moderation and respect do not detract from the joy of celebration; rather, they enrich the experience, allowing it to be savored fully. Conversations filled with laughter over a hearty meal can coexist with moments of reflection on the gifts we’ve received—both tangible and intangible. The best recipe for a good life includes heaps of love, a dash of moderation, and a sprinkle of humor. The next time you find yourself at a gathering, beer bongs in one hand and a plate of nachos in the other, just remember: balance that plate and raise that glass. Enjoy the fruits of your labor, but keep the focus on the laughter, the shared moments, and the gifts we receive—even when they come with an extra helping.

May the spirit of the season ignite within each heart a desire to celebrate with intention. In the end, may your holidays be full of warmth, laughter, and precious memories, grounded in respect for one another and gratitude for the God given blessings that surround us. Carry with you the hope and joy of the holiday season, and let each bite and sip be a reminder of the good gifts we have received. Life is indeed richer in the shared moments and the bonds that are strengthened around the table, where respect and joy intermingle like the flavors of a well-prepared feast. Bon appétit!